Silent Epidemic

Some people say that child abuse is a “silent epidemic”.

I say those folks might just be deaf.

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A judge who sends babies back into hell, will snuff out anyone as well.

  1. As always we welcome YOUR  input. Please share your experiences and opinions.Write as you wish.
     Really Your honor?!

    Bro Martinez and others who are here today,
    I want to repeat that the issue is NOT complicated, and the legislature HAS passed laws designed to prevent children from being returned to violent and neglecting parents.  But the legislature must continue to pass  laws to force corrupt courts to follow the law.
    It is up to us to make sure the world knows.
    I want to commend Edgar for his bravery in sharing the details of his story. I don’t know him, so I cannot speak on the merits of his case:
    BUT his situation is real.      

    The corruption, and so the physical danger to the child and to him, are REAL.  In Mexico AND here in Texas, pompous and vindictive judges and court appointees do hate those who disagree, and do take revenge.
    However, sharing these events is absolutely necessary to fix the situation of child abuse, and the stupidity that the arrogance from power, brings.
    The first thing we must get the judiciary to understand is that, anyone who loves a child will not, CAN NOT, send him back to the adults who were in the household during the period when he was tortured and starved.
    This is fundamental to the word love, and to the responsibility of the courts, and child protective services.
    Sending a child back tells the child EXACTLY what is felt about him.
    If a judge were to say this to a rape victim: “Yes he raped you, and beat you, and brutalized you, but he loves you with all his heart, and now you must go and live with him and he will be in charge of your body. He will have the power to bathe you, or not. Feed you or not. Not rape you, or do. And the court is sending you there because we love you. He deserves another chance, and you will be helpless when he violates you again. But that’s okay, because women are are resilient, and he says he won’t rape you again like he has all those days and nights before.”                                                      The judge could save time by just saying; “We on the court are too busy, or just too stupid, to do anything else but send you back.”
    This part of the issue is NOT complicated. STOP SENDING THE CHILDREN BACK.

A Ditty so witty, So pity the kiddie

  
    The winking judges
always said,
“A mystery! This kiddie’s dead.” 
 And the county folk  bowed low their heads.
Some to snicker, some to dread.  

          Cause sometimes parents come to court,
And say the other, coke, does snort, 
 then ‘friendly’ Black Robes will retort:
“Nope.  Too lovely. Not that sort.”   
   
       Or parents claim “I was at work
when the one at home did go berserk.
And if at night I would have woken,
I couldn’t know those bones got broken!
If I had I would have spoken!  
 
       It would all my strength have sapped,
his shin and thigh bones to have snapped.
It must have happened when I napped
after my boyfriend’s pot I tapped.”
   
       Long-term abusive malnutrition?
Not with MY love and intuition!
I was just young and impositioned.
   And you’ll believe me cause now I’m older.
(If you don’t look inside that folder
with the photos  so horrific,
you’ll swear,  that I,  am just terrific!)   
 
       And now Judge at his little school
he breaks a very sacred rule
by making me look very  cruel
by writing he’s afraid he’ll die.
But we all know the reason why.
Must be some foster parent lie!  
 
         So in the manner of Bexarly  thinking
Black robes started quickly  inking:
“This child,  at mom’s, was starved and hit
(but our cash backers would us quit,
if we dare say she is unfit.)
     
   So, kind Fosters, give him back,
(Yes mom, in the open can   now him smack)
Don’t shake your head like we’re on crack!
It’s just his high cost of living,
while we remain in the black.
                                                                                                                                                       
So the county folk, bowed low their heads,
mom’s lawyer snickered,
and my boy,
is dead.
 
 But each grown-up awakens,
 and this coffee, does smell.
A judge sending babies back  into hell
will snuff out anyone as well.
Here is a comment posted in reply to Dr. Bill Anderson on
 December 31, 2013
E.M.

Mr. Bill Anderson this story broke my heart, I am fighting the abuse and neglect of my own son, I been trying to protect my son since he was born, 5 years ago. My son was born with brain damage due to medical neglect. His mother don’t provide for him any neurological medical care and Therapies that he badly needs. Neither she provides basic hygiene, or protect him from witness her sexual activities, as a result my kid is traumatized in addition to small and grand ziezures that had extended his brain damage.
It took me 2 years just to get the neurological test, because his mother denied he had a brain injury and she prevent me access to my son to take him to a specialist. The EE and TAC showed his brain damage is now much worse from when he was born, The Neuropediatrycian recommended antizeizure medication and a series of therapies for his educational and neurological deficits.

My son and I are American citizens and I married my son’s mother in Eagle Pass Texas, but she lives in Mexico, trying to protect my son I filed for divorce in Bexar County and I got temporary custody but I didn’t know about The Haya convention exist, and my own Goverment with the State Deparmmment defended my wife free of charge, ( it cost me about 65000.00) a Federal Judge diecided that I should fight custody of my child in Mexico and I been doing that for 2 years, but the corruption and negligence of Mexican Official is unbelievable. I had to go to court to be able to get my son neurological tests, and after the EE and TAC shows my son needs medical attention and therapies her mother don’t allows the treatments, and the child protective services do nothing to protect my kid, neither the family judge, their negligence and corruption is incredible, they destroyed evidence that I introduce in court, because until recently before I got the test done, they said my son was healty.
I need your advise, and I need to bring public attention to this case. I believe my son shouldn’t had been sent back to Mexico, because he is an American Citizen, and because some of the Therapies don’t even exist in Mexico, and her mother don’t even make the effort to give him the care he needs.
Please help my Litle boy, his life is going to be pretty bad if the Govermment don’t allow me to provide for him medical attention.
He has doble citizenship and US and Mexican Govermment has let him down. I have provided both courts with fotos, videos, documents, and medical diagnosis to document my son neglect.
I will appreciate any advise.

Thanks
E. M.

                                      Our purpose    is to is to find, and EXPOSE, the reasons that Texas has such high rates of assault on children by their parents.

Euphemistically referred to as child abuse.

    Whatever the reason child abuse STARTS,

we’ld like to consider why it CONTINUES here.

     As always we welcome YOUR  input. 

Please share your experiences and opinions.

Write as you wish.

This site is not censored or moderated.    

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Bill Anderson writes today:

       Thanks Jim,

 

         You are quite right about the statistics.

 I have been involved in the system of this county for 10 years now.

 The research done in Texas on perpetrators, and my own findings support your statements.

 With one exception, the mother is more likely to be married and living with her husband.

         Biological mother,

         Between 26-34 y.o.

        Married (and not separated)

       With a documented history of abusing or neglecting a child previously.

 This last finding is an extremely frightening phenomenon.

 It means that

     1. the person has already done these things,   

     2. been in the system,

     3. and has not changed.

    The 4th point may seem counter -intuitive, but repeated analysis shows these people are better at hiding assault and starvation of their children while at the same time there is less need for them to hide it.

     Once a child is returned to an abusive or neglecting biological parent there is a commitment by the court system and DFPS to avoid looking foolish.

    Further outcries by the child, no matter how obvious or horrific, are almost never accepted as anything but lies put into the child’s head by the people who had rescued the child.

        It baffles humanity that even if true that negative comments against the abuser do occur, negative comments are thought such an evil that the child is sent back to the abuser even when that abuser has nearly killed the child over time.

     The abusive parent, now with the protection of the state is almost never confronted again over further out-cries. So for the research to show that MOST already have a history, there are far far more who go reported and yet uninvestigated, and the child suffers very painfully.

Bill Anderson MD PhD

 

 

Child Abuse Texas

  
    The winking judges
always said,
“A mystery! This kiddie’s dead.” 
 And the county folk  bowed low their heads.
Some to snicker, some to dread.  

          Cause sometimes parents come to court,
And say the other, coke, does snort, 
 then ‘friendly’ Black Robes will retort:
“Nope.  Too lovely. Not that sort.”   
   
       Or parents claim “I was at work
when the one at home did go berserk.
And if at night I would have woken,
I couldn’t know those bones got broken!
If I had I would have spoken!  
 
       It would all my strength have sapped,
his shin and thigh bones to have snapped.
It must have happened when I napped
after my boyfriend’s pot I tapped.”
   
       Long-term abusive malnutrition?
Not with MY love and intuition!
I was just young and impositioned.
   And you’ll believe me cause now I’m older.
(If you don’t look inside that folder
with the photos  so horrific,
you’ll swear,  that I,  am just terrific!)   
 
       And now Judge at his little school
he breaks a very sacred rule
by making me look very  cruel
by writing he’s afraid he’ll die.
But we all know the reason why.
Must be some foster parent lie!  
 
         So in the manner of Bexarly  thinking
Black robes started quickly  inking:
“This child,  at mom’s, was starved and hit
(but our cash backers would us quit,
if we dare say she is unfit.)
     
   So, kind Fosters, give him back,
(Yes mom, in the open can   now him smack)
Don’t shake your head like we’re on crack!
It’s just his high cost of living,
while we remain in the black.
                                                                                                                                                       
So the county folk, bowed low their heads,
mom’s lawyer snickered,
and my boy,
is dead.
 
 But each grown-up awakens,
 and this coffee, does smell.
A judge sending babies back  into hell
will snuff out anyone as well.